how many times has someone told you, “relax…” ? probably more than you care to remember. telling someone to relax or chill is a sure way of getting them more upset. many times people command others to do things they don’t know how to do. “relax” is one of those commands. this article will arm…
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my heroes are not gurus, swamis or saints. i trust that type about as much as i a do a telemarketer. these days, my heroes are mostly comedians, and they all possess a few qualities that i admire: the ability to see what is around them… …to process that information intelligently, according to their own perspectives …to be…
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appreciation: 1. ≈ the recognition and enjoyment of the good qualities of someone or something ≈ gratitude for something ≈ sensitive understanding of the aesthetic value of something use appreciation as a way to gather and concentrate attention. focus the attention on the body and the current situation you find it in. express appreciation for…
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complaint occludes appreciation and observation. complaints are excuses for inaction. take action to change circumstances you don’t like, yes, but do not complain about them. circumstances provide inspiration for action. observe the movement of complaint. it narrows awareness into delusional focus on some imagined slight, pain, blame, discomfort. awareness dissolves complaint. halting complaint does not…
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“people say things like, ‘think outside the box’ and ‘do your own thing.’ ‘be you,’ is what they say, ‘do you.’ but they don’t really mean that. what they really mean is, ‘do what we want you to do, and then do you if it doesn’t affect us.’” -katt williams, pimpadelic there is one trait…
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In undo: radical undoing podcast 02, we get into the history of Radical Undoing, answer more listener questions, and we allow a guest to introduce a set of very powerful techniques. See the video we mention by clicking here. Post questions in the comments section and/or via email.